Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Isabella Cochrane with the following comment:
Isabella and Sydney were my grandparents, and my mother is quite unwell and may pass away within a few months. I am interested in having my mother buried in this plot. I would be very, very grateful at this most stressful of times if I could receive an image of the plot, so that my mother, sister and I can agree what should be on the headstone then it is altered. It is also a matter of much personal interest to me in terms of my own family history.